Alchemy
A private coaching experience for women ready for that next version of self
Alchemy
A private coaching experience for women ready for that next version of self
Meet Ruhi
I grew up outspoken and observant, a middle child, first-generation American, daughter of a religious refugee, raised in rural Alaska. From an early age, I understood what it meant to stand out. No one looked like me, few spoke like me, and almost no one thought like me. What I later came to recognize as strengths, my communication, perception, and unique way of seeing, were first labeled as “too much” or “not appropriate.”...so I adapted.
I learned to quiet myself, layer on filters, edit my truth, and confuse validation with love.
Those patterns followed me into womanhood. I entered relationships from a place of diminished self-worth, mistaking connection for belonging. I married, became a mother, and navigated divorce, reconciliation, and divorce again, each chapter revealing unconscious cycles I had been living for decades.
From the outside, I appeared strong and capable. Internally, I was disconnected from my own authority, choosing others over myself and performing confidence rather than embodying it and eventually, I reached a familiar crossroads but this time, I chose differently.
I broke patterns I never wanted my daughter to inherit. I stopped negotiating with my truth and dismantled the filters I had relied on for safety. I rebuilt my relationship with myself from the inside out, where confidence became embodied rather than performed, self-worth became non-negotiable, and strength became quiet, steady, and self-directed.
Today, I use my voice with intention. I guide with clarity, speak truth when I see it, and offer perspective without apology. My authority does not come from perfection, but from lived experience, reflection, intuition, and the choice to evolve consciously and lead from alignment.
It's a fucking dream becoming me. Discovering me. Knowing me and exploring me. I cannot wait for you to experience the same.
Guide. Pathfinder. Coach. Mentor.
Mission
Private 1:1 Coaching
Private 1:1 Coaching
To create an environment where women thrive as themselves. Where hiding who they are is never considered.
A place where women can shine so bright, not being afraid of the shadows they will cast, because they know others shine here too and the shadows are seen, accepted, felt, held and known - without shame or judgement.
To lead women thro
To create an environment where women thrive as themselves. Where hiding who they are is never considered.
A place where women can shine so bright, not being afraid of the shadows they will cast, because they know others shine here too and the shadows are seen, accepted, felt, held and known - without shame or judgement.
To lead women through periods of meaningful
change with clarity, discernment, and self-trust.
To hold space for these changes with presence, truth, and respect for your inner authority.
To help women alchemize who they have been with who they are becoming and transition without force, performance, urgency or shame.
Private 1:1 Coaching
Private 1:1 Coaching
Private 1:1 Coaching
Private coaching available through an application only process. Click below for more details.